Mr. LaVelle, After reading that  post on in life lesson, it made me realize that i was never being completely up front with her and she may have been right.  I decided to be vulnerable and just tell her everything from the beginning till now and guess what.  The wedding is still on!

What a blessing

Norman You hit the nail on the head.  I hadn't considered thing that way until you responded to me.  Or maybe I knew it but just needed someone else to help me make sense of it all.  Well I am threw with him and he is out of my life.

Thank You